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Yikes

I understand you think that ur plan is so shizzy but like it was for the better even if that’s impossible to believe you never know what he could’ve done ❤️😇

People say the dumbest shit when you're grieving...they just forget all manners.

I’m sorry for your loss. Sometimes people just open their mouths because they just can’t sit in the pain with you. When all you want is for them to just be there.

The best advice I've heard is that this is shitty, and there's nothing I can do for you, but I can feel shitty with you. So let's feel how bad this situation is, and live through it. Basically saying that we shouldn't try and be positive all the time and we should accept that. Some things just suck, and we should support people while they are going through, or recounting that sucky period.

Don't disrespect God, the plan is for a reason

So weird talking about a serious topic and tapping products with your nails. Can people just be normal

These are subjective for sure especially “God has a plan for you,” like dang that made you mad too?

I understand that your questioning Gods plan for you. Many people in this world lose people and immediately blame God. I’m here to remind you that even though you’re angry now, as you get older and start to let go of that anger you will see his plan come into play. ❤

What are people supposed to say you immature brat

Where did you get that?

I hope you did a video of the good things first 💓

Im all for pro choice but saying someone should get rid of their child??? Like. Girl you can do thst for yourself but telling that to someone in that situation is sick

NA THE FIRST ONE IS INSANEEE I am literally so sorry those words had to enter your ears cus whatttt

Rants like this is why good and well meaning people are scared to say anything. You do a disservice to other greaving people.

I’m sorry for your loss, please don’t take this as stupid but sis your boyfriend know about the baby/ infant?

I am so sorry for your loss, you remind me so much of Autumn from If He Had Been With Me and I definitely recommend the book!

all i gotta say is if somebody loses someone or a pet PLEASE just say im sorry for your loss and ask them how theyre doing (maybe). dont voice your opinion. it doesnt matter.

How beautiful

I am very sorry for your loss. People are absolutely insensitive and genuinely believe that believe they know what’s best. But nine times out of ten what they say is either really messed up or stupid. Grief has no time line and it’s different for everyone and every situation. Just take your time.

Hey girl. It sucks. There isn't much anyone can say that will make you feel better about that period. People can be so callous without meaning to but, that doesn't make it ok. Your feelings are valid and you owe no one anything. I'm truly sorry. Congratulations on your son ❤

Doesn’t post pictures/videos of your breakdown: “omg you must be faking” Does post picture/video of the breakdown: “Omgmgmg what an attention seeker” People need to stfu I’m so sorry girl.

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Jesus loves you❤❤

“He’s in a better place now.” Okay. But to me the better place was here where I could love him and he loved me, where I could hug him, and have his support, and now I have to live with so much love that I can never give him.

People are so stupid! I don’t know why ignorant people, spew stupidity out of their mouth just baffles me. I’m sorry for your loss.

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Im so sorry. Its already difficult to have a baby, even more so when you lose their father. Its normal to mourn but to also be able to enjoy other aspects of life or at least not always "look" like you're mourning. Im currently 22 weeks pregnant with our second baby. This pregnancy started as a twin pregnancy though and we found out that we lost one of our twins at 18 weeks. The twin we lost deserves to be mourned even though their twin is still living. The twin we still have deserves to be celebrated even though we lost her twin. Its really complicated emotionally to grieve one baby while still feeling joy for the other baby. Grief can be strange, especially in a situation where there is someone to mourn, but also someone to celebrate.

God has a plan for u and Ik it’s not the best but someday if ur saved you’ll be able to see him again

“Why is my plan so shitty” nah fr :/ and who tf says that you have plenty of time to find a new father for the kid!?? Wtf?!?

I get meaning well but I wonder if any of them took the time to say those things out loud before saying them to you?

People are idiots. My father passed away very unexpectedly last March, my uncle walks into my parents house, while my dad is still dead in the other room and the coroner is doing his job and my uncle says “well at least he has life insurance.” (Cuz my uncle sells life insurance) then he walked out into the kitchen and made himself some coffee. I was STUNNED. So was mom. I haven’t spoke to him since that day and I never will

Wth is wrong with people? How would they feel if ppl said that stuff to them while they are grieving?

I'm sorry you had to go through this. The " god has a plan for you" is a really bad thing to say in this situation and while yes your situation is really sad we all have to to through trials throughout our life. It's important to trust God throughout it and remember that while you may feel alone, you never are

*Why do people put writing on shorts where you can't read it because it's behind other writing!!!* 😬

So you were dating someone that wasn't your son's biological father??? Still confused??

Your BF's biological father passed away?? Or your son's biological father passed away?? That's confusing.

If someone who I really care about got pregnant at 19 and the father of the child wasn’t there I’d tell them the truth ((it’s not fair for the child to be raised without a father, and it’s not fair for you to raise a kid by your own while you’re a kid)) so getting rid of the pregnancy is the right advice even though it sounds harsh

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I am sorry for what happend but god does has a plan yes it can be sad sometimes but his plan is best

People are so insensitive 😭

People say the dumbest shit when someone dies

Bro ain’t no way someone said you could just kill your baby to deal with the trauma of your boyfriend passing. 💀💀💀

Okay wowww. You’re very strong. I’m glad you got the blessing of your child from him thru it 💛 I know you were so young- hopefully it’s a little different now. That’s crazy.. People are wild and I can’t believe they even have the nerve with some of those comments.

What ever happened to "I'm so sorry for your loss" 😭😭

My husband passed away 3 years ago u got this don't lesson to that bull shit

So sorry. God actually does have a plan. Trust in the lord mama. He will never leave you.

YOU'RE AT ALO!? im in Italy, I cant come😭😭😭

You were very lucky to meet that special man. So sorry you lost your boyfriend ❤

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